We are a discrete "swingers" club... (like~minded friends & single females) our members consist of like~minded couples and single females. We host private parties in a friendly no~pressure atmosphere catering to your demand for discretion. If you are toying with the idea of swinging or are curious to explore what the lifestyle has to offer, then you are in the right place. We have been known to host some of the largest parties for swingers & select females in New York State. If you are ready to step away from your computer...and enter the reality of your Instinctive Desires into a real time situation...then we welcome you. Instinctive Desires operates in co-operation with other local and national clubs & organizations. We are commited to providing useful and accurate information, links & resources pertaining to the Swing Lifestyle Community. These pages are written by swingers...for swingers...if you have suggestions or ideas...feel free to Contact Us!